It's Not What happens To You.

It's not what happens to you that matters most.it's how you feel about what happens to you.

       EXAMPLE:lets say that you are at the airport,waiting to catch a flight and the airline tells you, "sorry ! mechanical trouble. You won't be leaving for three hours." You get very angry.you tell yourself ,"this is terrible ! i miss my connecting flight . this is a disaster ! "

        While you remain stressed,things will get worse, people will treat over you. spill coffee in your lap and lose your baggage. When you fight life,life always wins !

          Then finally you cool down . you tell yourself , there is nothing i can do about it. i'm probably when i meant to be. i make the most of it.

          suddenly,everything changes ! from nowhere and old friend appears,or you make a new friend,or you stumble on a fresh opportunity,and life begins to support you once you change our thoughts about a bad situation we can take advantage of it.

           Example   : imagine two women ,mary and jane. both gets divorced.

           Mary says : i failed , my life is over.

           Jane says   : my life has just begun !

   Who will blossom ?

-When you fight life , life always win-